In case you didn't see this article by Sonny Fulk, be sure to read it, great story.
If
ever one was destined to follow in the footsteps of his father,
consider the words of Piqua’s Travis Nees and the impact of playing,
and living with, his father/coach, Bill.
In twenty years of coaching at Piqua High School Bill Nees has done it all. He’s won 149 games. He’s won league titles, seven times winning 10 or more games in a season. He’s won a state championship, the 2006 Division II title, and he’s finished runner-up once.
And, he’s sent innumerable players on to play at the next level of
football, including Antwan Jones (Notre Dame), Matt Finkes (Ohio
State), Quinn Pitcock (Ohio State) Brandon Saine (Ohio State), Joey
Hudson and Joey Lyman (Miami) \and the Rolf brothers, Pete and David
(Weber State and Utah, respectively).
Bill Nees is a proud man, an engaging man…personable, and
occasionally glib with one-liners relative to his past accomplishments
and goals for the future. Ask him about rebounding from back-to-back
building years of three and five wins respectively and he can itemize
for you how he believes the 2011 Indians can make another run at
Massillon…and put you at ease to believe it all.
But without saying as much, you can tell. For all he’s
accomplished…for all he’s done in those 20 years as a football
coach…the one thing Bill Nees considers the most “personal” opportunity
has been that of coaching his own son Travis, a 6’1” senior linebacker
that exemplifies every football characteristic of his father.
Close your eyes and hear them talk football and you’d swear you’re
listening to coach “1” and coach “1a”…the language of the game, the
calculations, the enthusiasm, the positive outlook of seeing the glass
always half full. Travis Nees, the son, is just like the father.
And Bill Nees, the father, is nothing more than an older, wiser, and
more experienced version of the son. The dynamic between them is
unmistakable, and yet comfortable, almost corporate in its relevance
to their common goal…how to win more games in 2011 at Piqua.
“It really doesn’t seem like that big of a deal,” smiled the elder
Nees at the question of how they manage the relationship of father
coaching son.
“He’s been around here for so long he’s just gradually wormed his
way in and it hasn’t been that big of a deal. It’s fun to have him,
because while there are periods of the year where you can’t meet with
the team officially without taking a camp day, but I can still watch
film with him. I know it’s different, and I don’t want to speak for
him, but I’m sure it’s a different challenge when your dad is the
coach.”
Yes, it is a challenge, like sitting in the front row of math class
when your dad is the teacher. I found that out once upon a time. But
listen to example “1a”, who, at 18 is already polished in putting a
positive perspective on the adolescent issues of jealousy, favoritism,
and advantages to which others simply aren’t privy.
“I’ve had him as a coach, and as a history teacher my sophomore
year,” says Travis. “But if there is a perk it’s that I get double
time with him…at school and here at the stadium, and at home. I enjoy
it. He’s a great coach and a great father. I wouldn’t trade it. I’ve
loved the last three years that he’s coached me.”
When Bill Nees won the Division II state title with the 2006 Piqua
Indians Travis Nees was in the seventh grade, no doubt looking forward
to his own time to come in a program that appeared to be at the zenith
of its place among southwest Ohio football.
But the cycle of athletes that led to that title ultimately cycled
through. Brandon Saine, Dusty Snyder, and the Rolfs graduated. Justin
Hemm could only lead the 2007 Indians to an 8-4 mark. In 2008 they
were 6-4. And in his sophomore year Travis Nees began his tenure as an
Indian starter with a 3-7 record.
In his junior year they improved marginally, to 5-5. Disappointing,
no doubt, but in the language of football and football coaches, little
more than another obstacle in the pursuit of success for Nees junior.
“It’s been disappointing, but it hasn’t changed my expectations,”
he admits. “Every kid dreams of making that run to a state title, and
you can make the argument that a play or two has separated us from the
playoffs in the past few years. I’m always gonna’ believe that if we
could have gotten in we could have made a run.”
That’s from example “1a”. Example “1” is not far behind, in
differentiating the expectations he has for his team from those he has
for the son who plays on that team.
“We’ve still got one more year together,” corrects Nees senior. “I
think it could be a different story if you look at things after the
season. Right now I think we’re in pretty good position. He and his
class have done a lot…they’ve worked hard…to give themselves a shot at
a happy ending. You really can’t have that discussion until the end of
the year.”
At 6’1” and 190 pounds you won’t characterize Travis Nees in terms
of a four-star or five-star prospect to play football at the next
level. “I won’t gauge him as an athlete,” says a coach from another
GWOC program. “But I assure you he’s one of the best ‘football
players’ in our league. You know he’s well-coached, and he’s smart on
the field.”
And the coach that counts the most won’t disagree, assessing his
son’s attributes as a player and his prospects to play at the next
level.
"He
(Travis) has been around here so long it really doesn't seem like a big
deal to coach him," says Nees. "He loves the game. He's never missed a
weight room workout."
“He’s a hard worker. He really works at the game. He’s one of a
handful of kids in the program who’s never missed a lifting session
since the 8th grade,” says Nees senior. “He’s seen the best of both
worlds in the program…the kids with great potential who didn’t do as
much as they should, and he’s seen guys like Brandon Saine and Quinn
Pitcock come into the weight room every day and work their butts
off…not just show up and punch the clock. They showed up, punched the
clock, and then literally ‘punched’ the clock.
“He’s one of the strongest on the team. He’s one of the fastest on
the team, and college scouts talk about his ability to put people on
the ground. He’s a good tackler. On the field he has the ability to
look around and see how things operate. We even use him for kick
protection, because we know he’s that dependable. But the biggest
attribute he has is he works at it.”
Conversely, son Travis can quickly list the attributes of his father as a coach.
“I think it’s a tie between his dedication to coaching and his
caring for his players,” assures Travis. “He makes sure he gives you
100% in every film session, every practice. He’s never taken a day off
because he doesn’t feel like coaching. It never happens with my dad.
He’s always out there fired up, ready to go
.
“He’s particularly good late in the season, in week 8 when you
haven’t won as many games as you wanted, you’ve had a tough eighth
period Algebra class, and then you gotta’ come out here and put the
pads on. You know you’re going to have a rough practice, but he’s
fired up and ready to go. He’s the same with all the players. He’ll
ask you how your day was. How your family is. He doesn’t pass over
the little things.”
When practice is over…when the game is over on Friday nights…unlike
others on the team, Travis Nees, the player, goes home with Bill Nees,
the coach. Ask him then about his father’s best virtues as a dad, and
he’s just as proud to respond.
“He’s simply a great father, that’s all I can say. He cares, but
he’s not one of those fathers that’s always harping on you about
things. He knows when to push your buttons just enough to get you
motivated for the next week.
“We watch films at home, and we talk football, but there’s more to
him than football. He’s good to remind you late in the year that
you’ve got to finish your classes. He’ll say, ‘C’mon Trav, you’ve got
another quarter left’. Things like that.”
When I mentioned to another coach recently that I was planning a
feature on Bill and Travis Nees, he laughed and asked what game film
we’d be watching together. It’s a big part of why Bill Nees has had
the success he’s had at Piqua…preparedness.
Nees is a film junkie! And, it’s an integral part of the football
relationship between father and son, the enjoyment they share in simply
watching the game of football…a snapshot into the future of Travis Nees
and his goals beyond high school football.
Future
Dreams..."Everyone's dream would be to play on Saturdays," says Travis
Nees. "But beyond that, I'd like to follow in Dad's steps and coach."
“Everyone’s ultimate dream would be to play on Sundays in front of
large crowds,” says Travis. “But first you have to play on Saturdays
and I want to play on Saturday. I can see that dream coming true. If I
can get a couple of looks and the ball bounces my way I think I have
the work ethic to do it. I want that opportunity.
“Beyond that, yes, I’d definitely like to follow in Dad’s steps and coach.”
Football is serious business at Piqua High School. A game, yes, but
highly competitive and a community-wide topic of pride. When Bill Nees
talks about Indians football he speaks in terms of “Indian Nation”,
always the glass being half full, finding a way to win even on years
when the cycle of talent is less than bountiful.
He’s a serious football coach, and played football seriously as a
high schooler at Lima Senior, and later for Lee Tressel at Baldwin
Wallace College. Nothing escapes him on the field. He’s one of the
best at recognition and making adjustments without hesitation to
counter another team’s preparation or advantage.
But ask Bill Nees if he ever takes a moment to watch his own son,
not critically, but from the perspective of a proud father, and then he
hesitates…as if to shift from the mindset of coach to that of how best
to express his appreciation as a dad. It’s not as easy as explaining
the spread offense.
He loves his family, his three children…his two boys, Travis and
Alex…who obviously bear his commitment to the sport he loves and his
character in representing it.
He’s made it a point to see every one his players that played
Division I college football play at least once “in their college
environment”, a significant achievement when you consider the typical
Bill Nees weekend.
Saturdays are whirlwind of activity for Piqua football, beginning at
6 am in the morning. Films from the night before are broken down,
reviewed later in the morning with the players. A game plan for the
following week is devised and prepared for Monday’s practice. Ask any
who do it and they’ll tell you…Saturdays are as much a part of what you
do as a high school coach as standing on the sidelines on Friday night.
But should that Saturday “opportunity” come to pass for Travis Nees,
the dream of every high school football player to play at the next
level, “Dad” has already thought about a game plan.
“I’m done…retired,” he shoots back, without hesitation. “Troy Ouhl can take over.
Or is he?
“I don’t know,” he adds. “I’ve still got Alex coming yet, so I’ll
cross that bridge when it comes. With the advent of all the technology
we have now maybe there’ll be another way.
“Maybe they’ll have a helmet ‘cam’ by then and I can get the game
“skyped” back from the stadium somewhere?” he quips. “I would love to
have that opportunity. I’d love for him to have that opportunity.
We’ll see what happens, of course.”
Is it any wonder that the son aspires to be like the father…to play
on Saturday, to coach on Friday nights, to handle whatever comes when
it comes?
Bill Nees can adjust to anything. And don’t expect anything less
from Travis. #8 on the Indians’ roster, he’s “1a” in the Nees
household. It’s a good thing…between father and son!